"May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays."


This blog is neither pro-adoption nor anti-adoption. This is merely the story of a mother and her journey towards healing.


Chew On This

A quote from the book I’m reading (The Secret Life of Bees):

That was the absolute way of things. Loss takes up inside of everything sooner or later and eats right through it.

I have a blog already written and set to publish over at the Birth/First Parent blog on the subject. I’m referring to how overwhelming adoption loss can be at times for birth parents. I know others have felt that loss, however it is present in your life, eating away at your life and soul from time to time. I’m feeling some loss issues right now and, frankly, I just need to know that I’m not alone. So, hit me with your stories. Blog it yourself. Do something.

I’ve got another quote coming from the book as well. I’m not even out of the first sixty pages and this book is giving me material to write on left and write. Good book!