"May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays."


This blog is neither pro-adoption nor anti-adoption. This is merely the story of a mother and her journey towards healing.


I Don’t Want to Sound Mean… BUT…

I have this comment sitting in moderation. I haven’t deleted it. I haven’t spammed it. I haven’t approved it. It’s just sitting there. Every time I login, I’m warned that it is just sitting there, begging to be dealt with. But every time I click over to look at it, I want to vomit. Or scream. Possibly cuss. And I most definitely want to write about it.

But I’m stumped.

It’s a pro-life vs. pro-choice comment. And I can’t figure out how to reply to it without making myself sound like a total meanie-face. But it spouts, ever so politely, some really aggravating things. And I just don’t know what to do with it right now. So it sits. Taunting me.

I wanted to deal with it by Blog for Choice day. But, well, with the boys and the laundry and the work and the other stuff on my plate, I just didn’t get to it. And I still haven’t. I’m wondering when I will. If I will. It’s not that I doubt my position. I just don’t like when either side comes off as a complete buttface. And lately, I’ve seen buttfaces on both sides. And that’s not cool, man.

In other news, I plan on watching Juno tonight. If time permits. Look for that reaction on Monday for sure. (For sure, of course, based on whether it actually gets watched or not…)