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I’ve been working on who is who and what their titles are with my two year old. It’s a challenge to get him to pay attention to anything for very long so eventually the answers go downhill. But, so far, I’m enjoying the learning process on this one.

Me: Who is your brother?
BigBrother: PARKERBABY!
Me: Who is your sister?
BigBrother: ARINANAJENNA!

Not sure how or why my name has been thrown into the current pronunciation but it’s darn cute. (He’s never called ME Munchkin’sFirstMom.) When I ask him to point to her picture on the wall, he points and says, “SISTER!” I nod and bat the tears away each time.

He gets it. In his two year old way. He’s got a brother that lives in the room next to his and drinks Mommy’s milk and cries when he is sad. He’s got a sister who lives “far way” and when asked if he loves her, he says, “love sister!” I’m feeling sort of puff-chested as I begin to realize that his sister, though “far way,” is part of his reality. That’s taken a lot of work on my part and on her parents’ part (referring to visits there). We’re a good team. A good family in our own little way.

And yes, he YELLS EVERYTHING right now. It’s very CAPS LOCK ALL THE TIME IN THIS HOUSE. I love every minute.

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  • Judy March 4th, 2008 at 8:38 pm #1

    That. Is. Adorable.

    Judy’s last blog post..my constant companion: fear

  • Mary March 5th, 2008 at 9:06 am #2

    It is not the same, I suppose, but I have a brother and sister who are 13 years younger than me and I have never lived with. I visited in the summers (they lived with my dad and their mom and I lived with my mom) and the truth is I am closer with them than with the brother I grew up with. It is just a personality thing, but I know that their mom and my dad worked hard to make sure they ALWAYS remembered that I was their sister. So, I am sure he will grow up to be very close with his sister. I lived in NY, while they live in Florida – distance makes no difference now that we can all use the phone.:)

  • Amanda M March 5th, 2008 at 11:49 am #3

    Too cute! :)

  • Gretchen aka mamagigi March 6th, 2008 at 5:47 pm #4

    Very sweet, indeed.

    Oops! I mean:

    VERY SWEET, INDEED!

    Gretchen aka mamagigi’s last blog post..NJ Advances Open Records, Family Leave Bills!

  • CC March 9th, 2008 at 12:53 am #5

    I don’t know if my children’s first mothers will have more children (or if they already have), but I hope that if they do, they will one day meet and be excited about each other the same way that yours are.

    CC’s last blog post..Funny Friday

  • Abby March 13th, 2008 at 11:47 pm #6

    Your chest should definitely be puffed up. That’s a proud moment, indeed.

    I’ve only read a couple of your posts and I’m already hooked. It’s nice to meet you, too. That Dawn sure can pick ‘em! ;) (thanks for the Surpass coupon)

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