Comments on: Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2009/10/15/pregnancy-infant-loss-remembrance-day/ Writing Our Ever-Evolving Story Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:41:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: cindy.psbm http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2009/10/15/pregnancy-infant-loss-remembrance-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4533 cindy.psbm Sun, 25 Oct 2009 04:57:58 +0000 http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/?p=874#comment-4533 I am so sorry for your loss. I have never lost a child through miscarriage, but I would never expect anyone to be glad for such an event that will always be a tragic loss. Hey...did you know that she wrote that song for her birthmom? yeah.. I am so sorry for your loss. I have never lost a child through miscarriage, but I would never expect anyone to be glad for such an event that will always be a tragic loss.

Hey…did you know that she wrote that song for her birthmom?
yeah..

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]]> By: Dawn http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2009/10/15/pregnancy-infant-loss-remembrance-day/comment-page-1/#comment-4521 Dawn Fri, 16 Oct 2009 01:48:23 +0000 http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/?p=874#comment-4521 <i>Some people expect, since we weren’t trying to conceive and didn’t intend to get pregnant with our Rose that we didn’t love her, that we should somehow be glad that she left us so quickly.</i> Really? People have expected that? That's... horrible. My story is not entirely dissimilar to yours. Caelie was not planned either, as we were both in college, and my husband (then-fiance) was on a student visa. No one I spoke with could ever have though we didn't love her, given how strongly we grieved. But if anyone had told me I should be <i>glad</i> for what happened? I think I might have punched them. Some people expect, since we weren’t trying to conceive and didn’t intend to get pregnant with our Rose that we didn’t love her, that we should somehow be glad that she left us so quickly.

Really? People have expected that? That’s… horrible.

My story is not entirely dissimilar to yours. Caelie was not planned either, as we were both in college, and my husband (then-fiance) was on a student visa. No one I spoke with could ever have though we didn’t love her, given how strongly we grieved. But if anyone had told me I should be glad for what happened? I think I might have punched them.

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