Comments on: A Word on Grief http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2010/02/17/a-word-on-grief/ Writing Our Ever-Evolving Story Sat, 04 Feb 2012 03:41:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Y. http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2010/02/17/a-word-on-grief/comment-page-1/#comment-5262 Y. Sun, 18 Jul 2010 21:38:43 +0000 http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/?p=972#comment-5262 I'm with Jodi. Reading your bio, you're a fire wife too, so you know grief... to a degree. How many times have you pulled out the old Class A for DH? Or gotten ready to hug another widow, too soon, and feel guilty..? (Or is that just me?) I say it's the same - for those of us with hearts. I know when we gave our daughter up I couldn't function. And now as the 18th milestone birthday approaches, and the thought of her choosing not to know us (read: blowing us off - read: me taking her choice to live her life as it is, is not personal to me, who she does not know) I am in panic mode. I simply cannot function at times. Luckily there are people here who can. (In my house, in my life, didn't mean to make it sound like I'm in a group home or something..) ;) (Not that there's anything wrong with that!) Probably gonna get flamed for my comments. I feel for you deeply and I hope you find peace soon. Not for me to say, but you did a wonderful thing, and you continue to - imho, you are a part of each of your child's lives, they obviously come first, you shared in a way only we (first moms - I love that term) can, you are taking good care of yourself, and you blog for the rest of us. Peace... ((hugs)) I’m with Jodi. Reading your bio, you’re a fire wife too, so you know grief… to a degree. How many times have you pulled out the old Class A for DH? Or gotten ready to hug another widow, too soon, and feel guilty..? (Or is that just me?)

I say it’s the same – for those of us with hearts. I know when we gave our daughter up I couldn’t function. And now as the 18th milestone birthday approaches, and the thought of her choosing not to know us (read: blowing us off – read: me taking her choice to live her life as it is, is not personal to me, who she does not know) I am in panic mode. I simply cannot function at times. Luckily there are people here who can. (In my house, in my life, didn’t mean to make it sound like I’m in a group home or something..) ;) (Not that there’s anything wrong with that!)

Probably gonna get flamed for my comments. I feel for you deeply and I hope you find peace soon. Not for me to say, but you did a wonderful thing, and you continue to – imho, you are a part of each of your child’s lives, they obviously come first, you shared in a way only we (first moms – I love that term) can, you are taking good care of yourself, and you blog for the rest of us.

Peace… ((hugs))

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]]> By: Jodi http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/2010/02/17/a-word-on-grief/comment-page-1/#comment-4775 Jodi Fri, 19 Feb 2010 23:31:55 +0000 http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com/?p=972#comment-4775 My deepest sympathy to you and your families. My deepest sympathy to you and your families.

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